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Friday
15
September
Visitation at Funeral Home
4:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Friday, September 15, 2023
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home
200 East Main St.
East Islip, New York, United States
(631) 581-5600
Saturday
16
September
Funeral Mass
10:00 am
Saturday, September 16, 2023
St. John of God R.C. Church
84 Carleton Avenue
Central Islip, New York, United States
Private Cremation
Obituary
Eleanor Posthauer
The oldest child to Martha and James Pavone, Eleanor grew up on Staten Island, moving to Albany, NY upon her marriage to Richard and later to Long Island. During their 65 years together, Eleanor and Richard raised daughters Debbie (Larry), Jeanne (Randy), Patty (Karen), Andrea (Tom), and Carol (Mike). She often bragged to anyone she just met that she had 5 daughters.
In between dropping off/picking up children to and from band, softball, and soccer practices, Eleanor worked at Belmont Drugs for 33 years, forming life-long friendships with everyone there. Always the artist, she painted watercolors, ceramics, decoy ducks, and decorated amazing birthday cakes. Eleanor was an excellent cook and an awesome baker, making sure there were some goodies in the house at all times. She and Richard enjoyed trips to Europe, multiple national parks in the US, and going on adventures with grandchildren to Disney World. Eleanor’s green thumb made their garden a sight to behold. She had flowers bursting with color among the green shrubs and in pots and planters everywhere.
Eleanor’s pride and joy were her grandchildren Tommy (Shannon), Nick (Chris), Vicki, Michelle, Bella, Anthony, Cameron, Ralph, and TJ. Always making her smile, they were her secret to looking so young. Besides her loving family around her the last few months of her life, she was so excited to hold her great grandson Ezra.
She is survived by her brother Vincent (Marie) and their daughter Linda, her sister-in-law Sue, numerous cousins and their children. The world is a better place because of El.
In Lieu of Flowers
American Cancer Society
P.O. Box 6704
Hagerstown, MD 21741
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Tuesday, January 2, 2024
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Andrea and family, So very sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. My mom and I both send our sincere condolences. Sending a big hug and prayers to your entire family. Much Love, Alison Payette and Marylou Abruzzise
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Friday, September 15, 2023
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What a great lady she was like a Mom to me always looked forward to her coming into Roomors so we could catch up loved her shewill be greatly missed ❤️ My prayers are with you all love, Marie Jankow
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Thursday, September 14, 2023
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We are so sorry to hear of Mrs. P's passing. I had an absolutely wonderful time visiting with her in May with my mom. I loved our family's get togethers at your house in Colonie. One of my memories is she made a great spaghetti sauce, whether that is true or not! It was always fabulous to catch up with both Mr. P & Mrs. P at one of our family weddings and hear how great your families were doing! Love to all! Karen Stevens
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Thursday, September 14, 2023
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May Eleanor's life live on through all she loved. Sincerest Condolences - Pat, Chet, Tara, Jeanne & Julio
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Wednesday, September 13, 2023
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