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Wednesday
5
June
Visitation at Funeral Home
2:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Wednesday, June 5, 2024
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc.
200 East Main St
East Islip, New York, United States
Wednesday
5
June
Visitation at Funeral Home
7:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Wednesday, June 5, 2024
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc.
200 East Main St
East Islip, New York, United States
Thursday
6
June
Visitation at Funeral Home
2:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Thursday, June 6, 2024
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home
200 East Main Street
East Islip, New York, United States
(631)581-5600
Thursday
6
June
Visitation at Funeral Home
7:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Thursday, June 6, 2024
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home
200 East Main Street
East Islip, New York, United States
(631)581-5600
Friday
7
June
Funeral Mass
10:30 am
Friday, June 7, 2024
St. Peter the Apostle R.C. Church
70 Rockaway Street
Islip Terrace, New York, United States
Final Resting Place
St. Charles Cemetery
2015 Wellwood Avenue
Farmingdale, New York, United States
Obituary
Heather McNamara, of Islip Terrace, NY passed peacefully after a long battle with illness on June 1, 2024. Beloved daughter of Joe & Tina. Cherished sister of Stephanie (Ethan). Heather will be greatly missed by many. Heather was a ray of sunshine who made such an impact, and left a mark on this earth. As an EMT, friend, sister and daughter, she always gave her all and never expected anything in return. In keeping her memory alive, always remember her smile and her energy, and continue to spread her sunshine.
Flowers
Heather's favorite flowers are sunflowers.
Her family kindly suggests that flower arrangements be coordinated through:
Country Village Florist
212 E Main Street
East Islip, NY 11730
(631) 665-6800
Donations
Donations may be made in Heather's loving memory to:
Make-A-Wish® America
1702 East Highland Ave., Suite 400
Phoenix, AZ 85016
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Friday, July 12, 2024
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Joe it has been many, many years but we are sending our most heartfelt condolences and prayers. Love, Kim and the entire Bivona family.
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Tuesday, June 11, 2024
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Condolences to her family
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Rose Maieli lit a candle
Sunday, June 9, 2024
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Heather, you and your family will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
Rest in peace.
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April Miller posted a condolence
Sunday, June 9, 2024
Sending love & condolences to the family! I only learned of Heather since I started at the Blood Bank of Delmarva which is affiliated to NY Blood Bank. I’ve been very touched by her story & can’t imagine what her & her beautiful family has endured! So sorry to hear of her passing! Her memory will definitely live on in her legacy to volunteer & help others.
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Jennifer T lit a candle
Friday, June 7, 2024
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Heaven welcomed another Angel ,<3
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Thursday, June 6, 2024
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May heather rest in peace
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Marilyn lit a candle
Thursday, June 6, 2024
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to the entire McNamara family I send my sincere condolences. I remember Heather from my time with her mom Tina at the fire house. May God bless you all at this time and give you the strength you need to pull through many thoughts and prayers are being prayed for you all, love, Marilyn Stetson and family
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The Vaiana's lit a candle
Thursday, June 6, 2024
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Sending many heartfelt condolences to your family. We don't know your family personally, but followed Heather's story and were heartbroken for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Take comfort that Heather will always be with you in your hearts and memories.
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Seda Family lit a candle
Thursday, June 6, 2024
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Rest In Peace sweet child.
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers
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Matthew lit a candle
Thursday, June 6, 2024
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Rest in Peace Angel
May God Bless your Family
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Cindy & Ginny Murphy lit a candle
Wednesday, June 5, 2024
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So very sorry for your loss may she rest in peace
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Kristie Giarrantano lit a candle
Wednesday, June 5, 2024
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Sending many heartfelt condolences to Heather's family. I do not personally know the McNamara family, but my son is friends with Steph and Heather. He always spoke of Heather and what a sweet person she is and how he loved hanging out with her. It is a terrible loss for our community. We will always remember Heather and smile. May she rest in eternal peace, free from pain, and watching over all who have loved her and cared for her in her short time here on Earth.
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Osman Family lit a candle
Wednesday, June 5, 2024
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Osman Family Posted Jun 5, 2024 at 4:04 PM
To the McNamara family. We mourn with you the loss of "Little Heather". She was a bright light in any room she entered. I have the chance to work with her for a few months. To talk with her and laugh with her was something very special. May her memory always be a blessing to your family. Love, Chip, Lori, Emily & Amanda. XO
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Sue Holdy lit a candle
Tuesday, June 4, 2024
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My thoughts and prayers are with Heather’s family & friends. Although I did not know Heather I got to know her through my prayer group at church. I have been reading all about her & she has really touched my heart & soul. We have been praying for Heather and asking God for strength for her, her parents & her sister. To her family, I know you will cherish all of your beautiful memories of Heather.
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Tuesday, June 4, 2024
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May you rest in peace, Heather. You were a shining light and a beautiful spirit. You will be greatly missed.
Heather was our camp's EMT for the last two summers. Everyone loved her. She was very professional and what stood out the most was how much she cared for everyone. She tended to the campers with compassion and kindness. When not needed in the First Aid office, Heather pitched in and helped out elsewhere. She truly was part of our camp family.
The world is not as bright of a place without Heather.
Our hearfelt sympathies to all that loved her.
Eva Ensmann and the Estonian Children's Camp
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Tuesday, June 4, 2024
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Heather was one of these people in this poem.
There are very few people in this world who shine
so brightly and that share kindness, love and beauty
for everything and everyone they meet.
I am sorry just doesn't seem enough.
My prayers and thoughts are with all of you xo
Some people come into our lives
and quickly go... Some stay for awhile
and embrace our silent dreams.
They help us become aware
of the delicate winds of hope...
and we discover within every human spirit
there are wings yearning to fly.
They help our hearts to see that
the only stairway to the stars
is woven with dreams...
and we find ourselves
unafraid to reach high.
They celebrate the true essence
of who we are...
and have faith in all
that we may become.
Some people awaken us
to new and deeper realizations...
for we gain insight
from the passing whisper of their wisdom
Throughout our lives we are sent
precious souls...
meant to share our journey
however brief or lasting their stay
they remind us why we are here.
To learn... to teach... to nurture... to love
Some people come into our lives
to cast a steady light
upon our path and guide our every step
their shining belief in us
helps us to believe in ourselves.
Some people come into our
lives to teach us about love...
The love that rests within ourselves.
Let us reach out to others
and feel the bliss of giving
for love is far richer in action
that it ever is in words.
Some people come into our lives
and they move our souls to sing
and make our spirits dance.
They help us to see that everything on earth
is part of the incredibility of life...
and that it is always there
for us to take of its joy.
Some people come into our lives
and leave footprints on our hearts
and we are never ever the same.
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Lily fay lit a candle
Tuesday, June 4, 2024
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My heart breaks for the loss to your family. My love and prays are with you guys everyday❤️❤️
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Julie panico lit a candle
Monday, June 3, 2024
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My deepest condolences to your family. May heather rest in peace.
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Brianna Panico lit a candle
Monday, June 3, 2024
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Heathers spirit will forever shine brightly in our hearts. May her beautiful memory be a source of comfort and strength.
From, the Panico family.
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kristiana muzio lit a candle
Monday, June 3, 2024
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i’m so deeply sorry for your loss. thinking of you all and praying for your peace and comfort during this difficult time. i will be keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. you will be dearly missed heather.
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Marissa Mckee lit a candle
Monday, June 3, 2024
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Rest peacefully Heather. Your smile and story inspired and touched so many people! Prayers to the McNamara family
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Michael Leviton posted a condolence
Monday, June 3, 2024
I have "known" Heather for many years. I worked at the NY Blood Center and often used her story as an inspiration to many young blood donors.
The lives she has touched will continue her memory for many years to come.
My sincerest condolences.
Rest in Peace
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Lisa Barrios Smith lit a candle
Monday, June 3, 2024
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My heart is heavy with sadness. I remember the feeling of being touched by an Angel in your presence. Your light was illuminating Heather. Beautiful young lady with a beautiful soul. "A life that touches others goes on forever".
My deepest sympathy for my dear friends Tina, Joe and their lovely daughter Stephanie. May God and your loving memories of Heather comfort you during this difficult time.
God Bless.
With all my love, Lisa
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Monday, June 3, 2024
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I will miss you my good friend heather always called me love everytime you walked in to the ambulance
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Peggy lit a candle
Sunday, June 2, 2024
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Our deepest condolences to Joe,Tina , Stephanie and Ethan. We are going to miss our little sunshine so so much her amazing laugh and smile I love you Heather forever until we meet again my girl .
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Sunday, June 2, 2024
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