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Friday
12
April
Visitation at Funeral Home
5:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Friday, April 12, 2024
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home, Inc.
1225 Montauk Hwy
West Islip, New York, United States
Friday
12
April
Prayer Service
7:00 pm
Friday, April 12, 2024
Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons Funeral Home
1225 Montauk Hwy
West Islip, New York, United States
(631) 661-5644
Private Cremation
A TRUE LONG "ISLANDER"
Joseph Henry Dreyer, Jr, Joe to anyone who knew him, passed today after battling kidney failure for 5 years. Joe was 83. Joe is survived by his wife Julia (Judy) Dreyer, and his 4 children, Judi Soro and her husband James, Debbie Webber, Joseph Dreyer III and his wife Marlo, Amy Kuchler and her husband Adam, and his sister Joan, husband Robert. Joe had 8 grandchildren, David Soro, Kristen Soro, Daniel Webber, Andrew Webber, Heather Dreyer, Hayley Dreyer, Addison Kuchler and Abigale Kuchler. He was born in Jamaica, NY but moved to the suburbs of Long Island (Bellmore) as a young man. After marrying, Joe and Judy moved to West Islip where they raised their 4 children and lived for 55 years. Joe has an accounting degree from Hofstra University. After graduating, Joe worked at Hofstra as an accountant and was later recruited by the NY Islanders in 1972 to be the controller of the NY Nets and NY Islanders. As the Islanders organization grew, so did Joe’s career. He would eventually rise to the position of Vice President of Administration of the NY Islanders, a 4 time Stanley Cup winning franchise. At this time, he was also a board member of the Salvation Army. After 25 years, Joe said goodbye to the Islanders and took on a new opportunity as Assistant to the Vice President for Institutional Advancement for Suffolk Community College. He used his Long Island roots to help the college grow through fundraising. He went on to retire from Suffolk Community college at age 70.
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He spent his retirement giving back, working for Habitat for Humanity. He and Judy also traveled the world and created some great memories. When they weren’t traveling, they spent summers at their vacation home at Brant Lake in the Adirondacks with family and friends. In his final days, he let those who love him know that he had a great life, and no regrets. A memorial visitation will be held at The Fredrick J. Chapey & Sons West Islip Funeral Home, 1225 Montauk Hwy. (1/4 mile west of the Robert Moses Cswy.) on Friday from 5:00 pm until 8:00 pm with a prayer service that will start at 7:00 pm. www.chapeyfamily.com
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Lathika Nair posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 16, 2024
So sorry for your loss. Our condolences to you and your family. May he rest in peace.
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Friday, April 12, 2024
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Ronald Waske posted a condolence
Friday, April 12, 2024
SO SORRY TO HEAR OF JOE'S PASSING. HE WAS A FINE MAN TO WORK WITH DURING MY 10 YEARS WITH THE ISLANDERS. ALWAYS A SMILE AND A SOLUTION FOR MY PROBLEMS AND TIME TO SPEND CHATTING. CONDOLANCES TO THE DREYER FAMILY FROM RON AND PEGGY WASKE
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Jiggs McDonald posted a condolence
Friday, April 12, 2024
My condolences to Joe’s entire family. Your husband- your father was a gem! There was no one more helpful in my transition to the Islanders family in 1980. I will treasure the memories forever. Thank You, Joe …
Jiggs McDonald
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Thursday, April 11, 2024
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Claudia Martin lit a candle
Wednesday, April 10, 2024
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I had a fun, great rapport with Mr Dreyer. I always found him to be calming and willing to chat. I remember the times talking while he watered his front lawn. God bless the family and Mrs Dreyer. Much love Claudia and Gary
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Dorothy and Bill Kuchler lit a candle
Tuesday, April 9, 2024
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We remember Joe as an easy going friendly funny person. Who loved his kids and family. Thankyou Joe and Judy for letting us spend a beautiful lake experience at your upstate home.. rest now… and keep watch over your loved ones
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